Too many “get you a man that’s going to do this” or “a woman that’s going to do that.” How about we get ourselves a goal. How about we figure out our purpose in life. How about we get through school and graduate. How about we get that promotion. How about we become successful? We do that and I guarantee you, that woman or man will find us. Why? Because we’ve become valuable, we’ve become someone worth having, and someone worth fighting for. Let’s stop looking for someone and become somebody.